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Mary Kate Murray's avatar

Talk about getting back on the bike again! But this was like an old timey bike, Eric! It had been so long. Great book, BTW, I just started it, but I’m really enjoying your yarn.

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As a theater artist and cocktail lover, this article really speaks to me. Not the least because I have some personal connection with the material. I was a student of Robert’s mother at the small town high school she taught at in the 80s. She was an amazing human being who continually worked to show us--a bunch of hayseed kids from a small farm town in SE Wisconsin--that we were talented and could dream beyond the boundaries of that little town.

When I was a junior in that high school, she arranged for our “show choir” to perform in a competition/showcase in NYC. For the theater focused kids in the choir, like myself and a several friends, this was beyond thrilling. We dreamed of being arty urbanites, living bohemian lives in New York. Robert was a chaperone on that trip, and at some point graciously took a few of us under his wing. Or we just glommed onto him, the cool, slightly older college guy who seemed to know exactly where to go and how to be (at least to us) very cool. It almost certainly was the latter, but Robert (or Bobby, as we called him), was very patient and welcoming and made us feel very cool and grown up for a couple of days. Also, I can’t say for certain, but the picture included in this post looks very similar to some from that trip…at worst, it’s the same year. And it’s certainly the Robert I remember from that trip.

Reading this post and seeing that picture brought back a flood of memories about that trip. And it also reminded me of the deep impact it had on me, and the even deeper impact Robert’s mother had on me and my friends. I take things she taught me on stage with me even today, and into the rehearsal room as I follow in her footsteps as the theatre director at a local (albeit urban) high school. And while I’m sure, Robert, that you don’t remember me from Adam after all these years, it might surprise you how deep of an impact those few days in NYC had on me. I was a different person after I came back, and likely wouldn’t be doing what I do now if they hadn’t happened and you hadn’t been a part of them. So I will raise a digital Vieux Carre filled Nick & Nora glass to you and your family sir!

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